I’m 18 and have been going out with an older guy – he’s 26 – for about a year. My parents have never got on with him and think he’s a bad influence. Now I think I’m pregnant and don’t know what to do. I don’t feel I can confide in my mum because she doesn’t like my boyfriend and both my parents will hit the roof. He’s being very sweet and said he’ll support me whatever happens. I just don’t know how to handle my parents – I still live with them.
Coleen says..
Firstly, find out for sure if you’re pregnant. Home pregnancy tests are very accurate, but it would be worth seeing your doctor for a blood test and to date your pregnancy. And you can also discuss with them what your options are.
Now, I’m afraid you have to grow up very quickly – you made the decision to be with this guy and also made the decision to have unprotected sex, so you have to be mature enough to deal with the consequences. And that means you have to tell your parents. I really hope they’re understanding, but be prepared for ‘I told you so’.
When I got pregnant with my first child Shane Junior I was only 22 and not married. I was the first in my Catholic family to fall pregnant out of wedlock, so I was scared. So I started by saying “I have something to tell you and I’m really happy about it”. Good luck and open up to your family and friends so they can support you.